Remaining Married for the Children

Marriage

While it is an old-fashioned concept, some people believe they should stay married until their children are grown. This may sound like two people are willing to sacrifice their own happiness, but they are generally making excuses. The truth is that the children will be better off not being caught between two parents who do not care for each other, and they will adjust quite quickly. Few parents have considered this in the past, and some still cling to this idea today.

Refusing to end a marriage is often the mark of two people who do not know what they want out of life, or they may be afraid to pursue their dreams. Each person in the relationship finds ways to cope with the situation, and the couple begins to separate even as they remain together. Their activities are often enjoyed with friends who are not part of their normal circle, and this separates them further. Over time, the couple can completely separate their lives and share only a residence and name.

Part of what is lost in this type of disintegrating relationship is the ability to be friends with each other, and it can take a toll on either partner. They no longer have a confidante for their small secrets, and they have lost their sounding board for ideas. Escorts have long been paid professionals who will provide a listening ear and companionship for a limited session. They can be booked through an escort agency when the need arises.

Few people are willing to admit failure, and divorce is the ultimate failure of a relationship. If a couple wants to stay together, they should consider what they are sacrificing. Not all companionship and activities need to be lost, and escort agencies can continue to provide a person with paid companionship that requires no relationship commitment.